{"id":3296,"date":"2015-03-14T23:01:16","date_gmt":"2015-03-14T23:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rolka.cz\/?p=3296"},"modified":"2017-08-11T18:57:49","modified_gmt":"2017-08-11T18:57:49","slug":"7-tipu-co-zasadne-nedelat-kdyz-potkate-muze-svych-snu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/7-tipu-co-zasadne-nedelat-kdyz-potkate-muze-svych-snu\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tip\u016f, co z\u00e1sadn\u011b ned\u011blat, kdy\u017e potk\u00e1te mu\u017ee sv\u00fdch sn\u016f"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z n\u00e1s by r\u00e1da potkala mu\u017ee sv\u00fdch sn\u016f. I kdy\u017e je realita v\u017edy o trochu odli\u0161n\u00e1, \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159\u00e1t a i v tomto ne\u010dase m\u016f\u017eeme potkat n\u011bkoho, kdo alespo\u0148 z v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti spln\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. <\/p> \n

Jen\u017ee n\u00e1stup pln\u00e9ho \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed nemus\u00ed vydr\u017eet dlouho. Kdy\u017e u\u017e si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee jsme toho prav\u00e9ho potkaly, m\u016f\u017eeme dle nep\u0159izniv\u00e9 dosavadn\u00ed situace i p\u0159edchoz\u00edm \u0161patn\u00fdm zku\u0161enostem za\u010d\u00edt tropit hlouposti. Nab\u00edz\u00edm v\u00e1m proto 7 tip\u016f, co z\u00e1sadn\u011b ned\u011blat, kdy\u017e potk\u00e1te mu\u017ee sv\u00fdch sn\u016f. <\/p> \n

1. Nepodl\u00e9hejte mu<\/b><\/h2>\n

C\u00edt\u00edte se v b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch situac\u00edch siln\u00e1 a sebev\u011bdom\u00e1? Rozhodn\u011b tuto vlastnost neztr\u00e1cejte, pokud toho prav\u00e9ho potk\u00e1te. Pr\u00e1v\u011b to na v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee nov\u00fd partner obdivovat. Jakmile mu za\u010dnete podl\u00e9hat a svoji s\u00edlu vedle n\u011bj za\u010dnete ztr\u00e1cet, mu\u017e to \u010dasto vyc\u00edt\u00ed a postav\u00ed se do pozice nad\u0159azen\u00e9ho. I kdy\u017e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me od sv\u00e9ho partnera s\u00edlu a veden\u00ed, nikdy nesm\u00edme dopustit, aby n\u00e1s zcela ovl\u00e1dal. Jsme siln\u00e9. <\/p> \n

2. Nebu\u010fte mu poka\u017ed\u00e9 k dispozici<\/b><\/h2>\n

Zamilovanost je kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 v\u011bc a ka\u017ed\u00e1 z n\u00e1s po n\u00ed tou\u017e\u00ed. Ur\u010dit\u011b byste se svoji novou l\u00e1skou cht\u011bla tr\u00e1vit ka\u017edou minutu sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota, ale bu\u010fte obez\u0159etn\u00e1. Mu\u017e r\u00e1d dob\u00fdv\u00e1 a pro tuto vlastnost mu mus\u00edte d\u00e1t prostor. Ne poka\u017ed\u00e9 mu p\u0159ik\u00fdvn\u011bte, \u017ee m\u00e1te \u010das, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s popros\u00ed o novou sch\u016fzku. I kdy\u017e \u010das m\u00e1te, dejte dal\u0161\u00edmu setk\u00e1n\u00ed trochu odstup. Aby v\u0161ak mu\u017e nenabyl dojmu, \u017ee o n\u011bj nestoj\u00edte, potvr\u010fte mu, \u017ee se velmi r\u00e1da s n\u00edm uvid\u00edte. Ale co to zkusit v jin\u00fd term\u00edn, proto\u017ee v jeho navrhovan\u00fd ji\u017e n\u011bco m\u00e1te? <\/p> \n

3. Nebombardujte ho smskami<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mobiln\u00ed komunikace m\u00e1 jednozna\u010dnou v\u00fdhodu, jsme v\u0161ichni kdykoli a kdekoli dostupn\u00ed. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u0161ak nese s sebou i nev\u00fdhodu. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1te, \u017ee dan\u00e1 v\u00fdhoda je samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed. Proto ob\u010das r\u00e1da p\u00ed\u0161ete smsky a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te, \u017ee nejl\u00e9pe ihned na ni dostanete odpov\u011b\u010f a kdy\u017e ji nedostanete, hned p\u00ed\u0161ete, pro\u010d druh\u00e1 strana neodpov\u00edd\u00e1. Byla jsem sv\u011bdkem situace, kdy si mu\u017e \u010detl smsku z\u0159ejm\u011b od sv\u00e9 man\u017eelky v pra\u017esk\u00e9m metru (i kdy\u017e to \u010dasto ned\u011bl\u00e1m, jeho telefon byl tak velik\u00fd, \u017ee obah displaye se nedal p\u0159ehl\u00e9dnout, proto jsem konverzaci \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b vid\u011bla)<\/i>. Za\u010dal ps\u00e1t odpov\u011b\u010f, jen\u017ee psan\u00ed z\u0159ejm\u011b nebylo jeho p\u0159ednost\u00ed, proto slova \u010dasto a znovu p\u0159episoval. Trochu jsem ho podez\u00edrala z toho, \u017ee hodn\u011b p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad t\u00edm, co vlastn\u011b napsat, mo\u017en\u00e1 \u0161patn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti s reakc\u00ed na ur\u010dit\u00e1 slovn\u00ed spojen\u00ed. Ne\u017e smsku dopsal a odeslal, p\u00edpla mu dal\u0161\u00ed. P\u0159e\u010detl jsi ji, jen\u017ee omylem si tak vymazal p\u0159edchoz\u00ed obsah, tak ji za\u010dal ps\u00e1t znova. Kdy\u017e u\u017e ji dokon\u010dil, sna\u017eil se ji odeslat, jen\u017ee ve stanic\u00edch nechytl sign\u00e1l tak rychle, aby zpr\u00e1va ode\u0161la. Kdy\u017e jsme dojeli na kone\u010dnou, za\u010dal mu zvonit telefon. Zvedl ho a reagoval u\u017e pom\u011brn\u011b dost podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u011b, i kdy\u017e se na prvn\u00ed smsku usm\u00edval. Toto je konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edklad toho, pro\u010d nikdy nem\u016f\u017eeme dostat odpov\u011b\u010f ihned, i kdy\u017e to p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1me. Pokud bude cht\u00edt odpov\u011bd\u011bt, tak v\u00e1m odpov\u00ed. Nezab\u00fdvejte se displayem va\u0161eho mobilu, nekontrolujte p\u0159\u00edchoz\u00ed zpr\u00e1vy. I v mobiln\u00ed komunikaci reagujte naprosto p\u0159irozen\u011b. <\/p> \n

4. Ne\u0159\u00edkejte mu hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku, kolik chcete nebo m\u00e1te d\u011bt\u00ed<\/b><\/h2>\n

P\u0159edstavte si mu\u017ee jako lovce, jako v\u016fdce tlupy. Chce m\u00edt jasnou a jedinou kontrolu nad pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00edm sv\u00e9ho rodu. V\u011bd\u011bly jste, d\u00e1my, \u017ee i mu\u017esk\u00fd penis je p\u0159izp\u016fsoben tak, aby sv\u00fdm speci\u00e1ln\u00edm tvarem a d\u00edky p\u0159idru\u017een\u00fdm kopula\u010dn\u00edm pohyb\u016fm vypudil p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 p\u0159edchoz\u00ed semeno jin\u00e9ho mu\u017ee? A pokud \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me, \u017ee mu\u017ei p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed jenom penisem, v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se to m\u016f\u017ee potvrdit. Prim\u00e1rn\u011b cht\u011bj\u00ed vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti a r\u00e1di rozhoduj\u00ed o jejich celkov\u00e9m po\u010dtu, nehled\u011b na to, \u017ee si \u010dasto dop\u0159edu p\u0159ej\u00ed i pohlav\u00ed sv\u00e9ho potomka. Informace o tom, \u017ee chcete minim\u00e1ln\u011b 4 d\u011bti, nebo \u017ee u\u017e m\u00e1te 2 d\u011bti z p\u0159edchoz\u00edho man\u017eelstv\u00ed, by je mohla odradit, respektive jejich p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed trochu posunout jinam. Nezahlcujte je proto zpo\u010d\u00e1tku podobn\u00fdmi informacemi, dejte jim trochu \u010das. <\/p> \n

5. Nep\u0159id\u00e1vejte si ho na Facebook \u010di na jin\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b<\/b><\/h2>\n

Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b op\u011bt pom\u00e1haj\u00ed v udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed kontaktu s na\u0161imi bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi a p\u0159\u00e1teli, jen\u017ee se z\u00e1rove\u0148 mohou st\u00e1t n\u00e1strojem paranoie. Pokud si sv\u00e9ho vysn\u011bn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee p\u0159id\u00e1te na Facebook, bezpochyby za\u010dnete ihned zkoumat jeho seznam p\u0159\u00e1tel a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm ten s \u017eensk\u00fdm osazen\u00edm. Kter\u00e1 z nich m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jeho ex? Je hez\u010d\u00ed ne\u017e j\u00e1? A pro\u010d olajkoval fotku t\u00e9to blond\u00fdny? Co s n\u00ed m\u00e1 spole\u010dn\u00e9ho? Prost\u011b zapome\u0148te na Facebook a dal\u0161\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b, \u017eijte s n\u00edm v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b. Ke spokojen\u00e9m vztahu \u017e\u00e1dnou s\u00ed\u0165 nepot\u0159ebujete. <\/p> \n

6. Neza\u010dn\u011bte s n\u00edm ihned bydlet<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee byste se sv\u00fdm partnerem byla r\u00e1da co nej\u010dast\u011bji. R\u00e1da byste pro n\u011bj p\u0159ipravovala skv\u011bl\u00e9 ob\u011bdy (jen douf\u00e1m, \u017ee dle mam\u010diny kucha\u0159ky a ne n\u011bjak\u00e9ho televizn\u00edho patlala). I p\u0159esto d\u016frazn\u011b nab\u00e1d\u00e1m, abyste my\u0161lenku o spole\u010dn\u00e9m bydlen\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b pozdr\u017eela. I kdy\u017e to v\u00e1\u0161 partner m\u016f\u017ee pova\u017eovat zpo\u010d\u00e1tku za odm\u00edtnut\u00ed, rad\u011bji u n\u011bj \u010dast\u011bji p\u0159esp\u00e1vejte. Dejte mu pocit, \u017ee jste mu st\u00e1le vz\u00e1cn\u00e1 a \u017ee si v\u00e1s je\u0161t\u011b mus\u00ed z\u00edskat. <\/p> \n

7. Nep\u0159edstavujte ho zpo\u010d\u00e1tku sv\u00e9 rodin\u011b<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mu\u017ei nemaj\u00ed r\u00e1di sv\u00e9 tch\u00fdn\u011b, to se v\u00ed. Kdy\u017e mu ji \u010di celou rodinu velmi brzy p\u0159edstav\u00edte, bude si myslet, \u017ee se ho sna\u017e\u00edte uhnat do chomoutu. To je pro chlapa, kter\u00fd se ob\u010das chov\u00e1 jak vzpouzej\u00edc\u00ed se h\u0159ebec, r\u00e1na pod p\u00e1s. Rodina je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1, i pro n\u011bj, ale pot\u0159ebuje \u010das pochopit v\u0161echny va\u0161e rodinn\u00e9 vztahy. Nejd\u0159\u00edve mu o sv\u00e9 rodin\u011b \u010dasto a hezky pov\u00eddejte, vysv\u011btlete mu dop\u0159edu i p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 neshody, kter\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e1 u v\u00e1s v rodin\u011b existuj\u00ed. Uve\u010fte ho v obraz tak, aby na prvn\u00ed setk\u00e1n\u00ed byl dostate\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ipraven. Pokud byste postupovaly jako p\u0159i l\u00e9\u010db\u011b \u0161okem, mohl by se zdr\u00e1hat a ut\u00e9ci. <\/p> \n

A rada na z\u00e1v\u011br: vysn\u011bn\u00fd mu\u017e je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm ten, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s miluje takovou, jakou jste.\u00a0<\/b> <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z n\u00e1s by r\u00e1da potkala mu\u017ee sv\u00fdch sn\u016f. I kdy\u017e je realita v\u017edy o trochu odli\u0161n\u00e1, \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159\u00e1t a i v tomto ne\u010dase m\u016f\u017eeme potkat n\u011bkoho, kdo alespo\u0148 z v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti spln\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Jen\u017ee n\u00e1stup pln\u00e9ho \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed nemus\u00ed vydr\u017eet dlouho. Kdy\u017e u\u017e si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee jsme toho prav\u00e9ho potkaly, m\u016f\u017eeme dle … <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":4019,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[62,78],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3296"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5820,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3296\/revisions\/5820"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3296"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=3296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}