{"id":3544,"date":"2015-03-29T17:19:09","date_gmt":"2015-03-29T17:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rolka.cz\/?p=3544"},"modified":"2017-08-11T18:56:27","modified_gmt":"2017-08-11T18:56:27","slug":"na-prvni-rande-prichazejte-vzdy-s-cistou-hlavou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/na-prvni-rande-prichazejte-vzdy-s-cistou-hlavou\/","title":{"rendered":"Na prvn\u00ed rande p\u0159ich\u00e1zejte v\u017edy s \u010distou hlavou"},"content":{"rendered":" <p> Prvn\u00ed rande je stejn\u011b jako jak\u00fdkoli prvn\u00ed kontakt s ciz\u00ed osobou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. Na prvn\u00ed dojem d\u00e1\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s a v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s se tak\u00e9 dopou\u0161t\u00ed velk\u00fdch omyl\u016f. Kter\u00e9 to jsou? T\u00edm prvn\u00ed je nap\u0159\u00edklad <strong>hal\u00f3 efekt<\/strong>.\u00a0\u010casto se nech\u00e1v\u00e1me un\u00e9st n\u011bjak\u00fdm n\u00e1padn\u00fdm rysem, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee odradit od dal\u0161\u00edho pozn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. T\u00edm je a\u017e z 55 % celkov\u00fd vzhled. Pokud tedy doraz\u00edm na rande s bizarn\u00edm \u00fa\u010desem, mohu o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee druh\u00e1 osoba bude ji\u017e od po\u010d\u00e1tku moji osobu hodnotit negativn\u011b a a\u0165 se budu sna\u017eit sebev\u00edce, nic to prakticky nebude platn\u00e9. <\/p> \n <p> Krom\u011b \u00fa\u010desu tak\u00e9 lid\u00e9 \u010dasto sleduj\u00ed styl obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, upravenost, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b \u017een i mno\u017estv\u00ed make-upu. Co je zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, tak a\u017e na 38 % lid\u00ed p\u016fsob\u00ed hlasov\u00e9 dispozice. Pokud tedy mu\u017e opl\u00fdv\u00e1 hlubok\u00fdm a p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdm hlasem, m\u00e1 velk\u00fd bonus nav\u00edc. Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 oble\u010den\u00ed, i kdy\u017e je z velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti u mu\u017e\u016f nyn\u00ed trend se obl\u00e9kat jako tzv. metrosexu\u00e1l, prot\u011bj\u0161ek to nemus\u00ed ocenit. Kladn\u011b se hodnot\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm p\u0159irozenost v obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed a \u00fam\u011brnost k v\u011bku. <\/p> \n <p> Krom\u011b hal\u00f3 efektu se tak\u00e9 lid\u00e9 na prvn\u00edm randeti dopou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed tzv. <strong>logick\u00e9 chyby<\/strong>. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1daj\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e se prot\u011bj\u0161ek dopou\u0161t\u00ed jist\u00e9 chyby, ur\u010dit\u011b se bude dopou\u0161t\u011bt i druh\u00fdch. Nap\u0159\u00edklad pokud si kou\u0161e nehty, nebude z\u0159ejm\u011b dostate\u010dn\u011b dodr\u017eovat osobn\u00ed hygienu. To se v\u0161ak na pravd\u011b v\u016fbec zakl\u00e1dat nemus\u00ed. Kous\u00e1n\u00ed neht\u016f nen\u00ed sice nic moc hezk\u00e9, ale m\u016f\u017ee souviset se stresem. Kdy\u017e to lidov\u011b p\u0159evedeme, dan\u00e1 osoba si mohla ukousat nehty t\u011bsn\u011b p\u0159ed t\u00edm, ne\u017e na prvn\u00ed rande vyrazila, proto\u017ee byla hrozn\u011b nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed. Kous\u00e1n\u00ed neht\u016f je toti\u017e \u010dasto spojov\u00e1no s nervozitou. <\/p> \n <p> U prvn\u00edho rande p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed tak\u00e9 \u010dasto \u0159e\u010d na profesi. Lid\u00e9 myln\u011b z pracovn\u00edho postoje usuzuj\u00ed vlastnosti \u010dlov\u011bka, \u010d\u00edm\u017e vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed <strong>efekt soci\u00e1ln\u00edho postaven\u00ed<\/strong>. U u\u010ditel\u016f se nap\u0159\u00edklad za\u017eit\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee i doma jsou pedanti. U lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se \u017eiv\u00ed rukama, \u017ee nemaj\u00ed dostatek\u00a0intelektu. Podobnou chybou se st\u00e1v\u00e1 i <strong>projektov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong>, kdy do druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka projektujeme sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud tedy r\u00e1di cestujeme, prot\u011bj\u0161ek ur\u010dit\u011b bude r\u00e1d cestovat tak\u00e9, proto\u017ee si ho p\u0159eci podv\u011bdom\u011b vyb\u00edr\u00e1me. <\/p> \n <p> Prvn\u00ed rande by proto m\u011blo b\u00fdt poka\u017ed\u00e9 o \u010dist\u00e9 hlav\u011b. Tedy p\u0159ij\u00edt i odej\u00edt s t\u00edm, ani\u017e bychom si o \u010dlov\u011bku cokoli mysleli na z\u00e1klad\u011b jeho vzhledu \u010di chov\u00e1n\u00ed a rovnou ho za\u0159adili do jist\u00e9 \u0161katulky. <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <p> Prvn\u00ed rande je stejn\u011b jako jak\u00fdkoli prvn\u00ed kontakt s ciz\u00ed osobou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. Na prvn\u00ed dojem d\u00e1\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s a v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s se tak\u00e9 dopou\u0161t\u00ed velk\u00fdch omyl\u016f. Kter\u00e9 to jsou? T\u00edm prvn\u00ed je nap\u0159\u00edklad hal\u00f3 efekt.\u00a0\u010casto se nech\u00e1v\u00e1me un\u00e9st n\u011bjak\u00fdm n\u00e1padn\u00fdm rysem, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee odradit od dal\u0161\u00edho pozn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. T\u00edm je a\u017e z 55 % &hellip; <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":4006,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[62,78],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3544"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3544"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5814,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3544\/revisions\/5814"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3544"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=3544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}