{"id":5927,"date":"2017-09-15T00:15:41","date_gmt":"2017-09-15T00:15:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=5927"},"modified":"2018-04-18T19:08:40","modified_gmt":"2018-04-18T19:08:40","slug":"ve-svem-zivote-budte-vzdy-sami-sebou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/ve-svem-zivote-budte-vzdy-sami-sebou\/","title":{"rendered":"Ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b bu\u010fte v\u017edy sami sebou"},"content":{"rendered":" <p> Existuje \u0159ada osobnost\u00ed, a\u0165 u\u017e z pohledu vlastnost\u00ed, charakteru, povahy nebo z pohledu sm\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, pohledu na sv\u011bt, pohledu na \u017eivot. Nelze \u0161katulkovat, lze jen vytvo\u0159it obecn\u00fd parametr. <\/p> \n <p> Obecn\u00fdch parametr\u016f, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s rozd\u011bluj\u00ed a \u0161katulkuj\u00ed, je mnoho. V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s se sna\u017e\u00ed n\u011bkam pat\u0159it, b\u00fdt n\u011bkde za\u0159azen, nap\u0159\u00edklad ve \u0161kole: b\u00fdt premiant t\u0159\u00eddy, nebo v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, b\u00fdt zam\u011bstnanec m\u011bs\u00edce, b\u00fdt \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd v \u017eivot\u011b. <\/p> \n<h2>Nehledejte sebe, bu\u010fte sami sebou<\/h2>\n <p> Ve chv\u00edli, kdy vybo\u010dujeme, nebo nejsme ve \u0161katulce kladn\u00fdch hodnot, m\u00e1me pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti a hled\u00e1me se. Ten pojem &#8220;hledat se&#8221; je velmi zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, proto\u017ee hledat m\u016f\u017eeme partnera, dobr\u00e9 zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, poklad na konci duhy, ale sebe? Kdepak. Hled\u00e1me \u0161katulku, \u0161upl\u00edk, kam zapadneme. Jen\u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b nejde o to naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vnou \u0161katulku, ani \u0161upl\u00edk, kam se nacpeme. <\/p> \n<h2>Do \u0161upl\u00edku se nevejdu<\/h2>\n <p> Sama jsem m\u011bla pocit, \u017ee se hled\u00e1m, jen\u017ee o to v\u00edc jsem se c\u00edtila jak n\u011bjak\u00e1 fena, prost\u011b pes, co se hon\u00ed za vlastn\u00edm ocasem. Blb\u00fd, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd nem\u00e1m. Po \u010dase mi do\u0161lo, \u017ee jen hled\u00e1m \u0161upl\u00edky, kam bych zapadla. <\/p> \n <p> <strong>\u010ct\u011bte tak\u00e9: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/muzi-skutecne-oceni-zeny-az-svem-konci\/\">Mu\u017ei skute\u010dn\u011b ocen\u00ed \u017eeny a\u017e na sv\u00e9m konci<\/a><\/strong> <\/p> \n <p> V m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b sp\u00ed\u0161 \u0161upl\u00edk, do kter\u00e9ho bych se ve\u0161la. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b mi po \u010dase do\u0161lo, \u017ee nejde o ty \u0161upl\u00edky, ani \u0161katulky. Nepot\u0159ebuji obecn\u00e1 m\u011b\u0159\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 mi \u0159eknou, zda jsem kr\u00e1sn\u00e1, nebo o\u0161kliv\u00e1; chytr\u00e1 nebo hloup\u00e1; vtipn\u00e1, nebo trapn\u00e1. Sama si um\u00edm \u0159\u00edct: <em>&#8220;No, dneska m\u00e1\u0161 teda r\u00e1nu,&#8221;<\/em> nebo <em>&#8220;Rad\u0161\u00ed nemysli,&#8221;<\/em> nebo<em> &#8220;Dnes mi to slu\u0161\u00ed.&#8221;<\/em> Do\u0161lo mi, \u017ee nejde o to vej\u00edt se do \u0161upl\u00edku, ale v ka\u017ed\u00e9m \u0161upl\u00edku p\u0159ijmout kousek sebe a \u017ee m\u011b je velk\u00fd kus. <\/p> \n<h2>Klaustrofobici, vylezte ven<\/h2>\n <p> Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b podstatn\u00e9 je um\u011bt p\u0159ijmout sebe samotn\u00e9ho. Nehledat se, ale p\u0159ijmout se. Neza\u0159azovat se, ale vy\u010dn\u00edvat. Neb\u00fdt v \u0161upl\u00edku, ale b\u00fdt vid\u011bt. Nev\u00edm jak vy, ale j\u00e1 osobn\u011b nem\u00e1m r\u00e1da st\u00edsn\u011bn\u00e9 prostory, tak\u017ee j\u00e1 a \u0161upl\u00edk beztak nen\u00ed dobr\u00e1 kombinace. <\/p> \n <p> Nelze b\u00fdt v jednom \u0161upl\u00edku cel\u00fd \u017eivot a j\u00e1 se m\u00e1m asi po\u0159\u00e1d moc r\u00e1da na to, abych se kouskovala do parametr\u016f dne\u0161n\u00ed doby. T\u00edm bych cht\u011bla i v\u00e1m p\u0159edeslat m\u00e9 poselstv\u00ed: <em>&#8220;Netrhejte se. M\u011bjte hlavu na krku, mozek v hlav\u011b a \u0161upl\u00edk zam\u010den\u00fd. Nic ne\u017e tmu tam stejn\u011b nenajdete a t\u00e9 te\u010f p\u0159es zimu budeme m\u00edt v\u00edc ne\u017e dost.&#8221;<\/em> <\/p> \n <p> <strong>\u010ct\u011bte tak\u00e9: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/sex-tretim-rande-hloupost\/\">Sex na t\u0159et\u00edm rande? Hloupost!<\/a><\/strong> <\/p> \n<h2>U\u017e nejsem \u0161katulka, jsem \u010dlov\u011bk<\/h2>\n <p> B\u00fdt svobodn\u00e1 matka je vlastn\u011b taky \u0161katulka. A vypov\u00eddac\u00ed hodnota? \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1, proto\u017ee parametr svobody jaksi nekoresponduje s parametrem matky. V m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, kdybych &#8220;se hledala,&#8221; byla bych zlomen\u00e1 v pase vejp\u016fl a sm\u00edchy by to nebylo. <\/p> \n<aside id=\"custom_html-2\" class=\"widget_text widget widget_custom_html amr_widget\"><div class=\"textwidget custom-html-widget\"><strong>Mark\u00e9ta<\/strong>  <br \/>  \r\nDal\u0161\u00ed vtipn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy i kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 historky najdete na m\u00e9 str\u00e1nce <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Makylea\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">na Facebooku<\/a>. <\/div><\/aside>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <p> Existuje \u0159ada osobnost\u00ed, a\u0165 u\u017e z pohledu vlastnost\u00ed, charakteru, povahy nebo z pohledu sm\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, pohledu na sv\u011bt, pohledu na \u017eivot. Nelze \u0161katulkovat, lze jen vytvo\u0159it obecn\u00fd parametr. Obecn\u00fdch parametr\u016f, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s rozd\u011bluj\u00ed a \u0161katulkuj\u00ed, je mnoho. V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s se sna\u017e\u00ed n\u011bkam pat\u0159it, b\u00fdt n\u011bkde za\u0159azen, nap\u0159\u00edklad ve \u0161kole: b\u00fdt premiant t\u0159\u00eddy, nebo v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, &hellip; <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":5956,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[96,62,78],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5927"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5927"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5927\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5948,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5927\/revisions\/5948"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5956"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5927"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=5927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}