{"id":6182,"date":"2019-03-03T11:47:37","date_gmt":"2019-03-03T11:47:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=6182"},"modified":"2019-03-03T11:47:38","modified_gmt":"2019-03-03T11:47:38","slug":"jak-pusobit-seriozne-a-zaujmout-na-prvni-schuzce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/jak-pusobit-seriozne-a-zaujmout-na-prvni-schuzce\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak p\u016fsobit seri\u00f3zn\u011b a zaujmout na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u010cek\u00e1 v\u00e1s prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzka se sympatick\u00fdm prot\u011bj\u0161kem a chv\u011bjete se nervozitou? Nejste sami! V\u011bt\u0161ina mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een chce ud\u011blat dobr\u00fd dojem a nic nepokazit. Pokud se ji\u017e p\u0159ipravujete na rande, zastavte se a p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si dne\u0161n\u00ed \u010dl\u00e1nek. Dozv\u00edte se v n\u011bm, jak zaujmout na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce a p\u016fsobit seri\u00f3zn\u011b! S na\u0161imi tipy se m\u016f\u017ee z prvn\u00edho rande vyklubat skv\u011bl\u00fd vztah. <\/p> \n

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Navrhn\u011bte m\u00edsto setk\u00e1n\u00ed <\/p> \n

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Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 pravidlo, \u017ee by m\u00edsto prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzky m\u011bl navrhnout mu\u017e. Iniciativu mohou p\u0159evz\u00edt i \u017eeny. Jestli\u017ee se s prot\u011bj\u0161kem zn\u00e1te kr\u00e1tce z online seznamky<\/a>, bezpe\u010dn\u011b se s n\u00edm budete c\u00edtit na ve\u0159ejn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, nap\u0159\u00edklad v kav\u00e1rn\u011b, kin\u011b nebo m\u011bstsk\u00e9m parku. Pokud se v\u00e1m prot\u011bj\u0161ek nebude l\u00edbit, m\u016f\u017eete sn\u00e1ze odej\u00edt. Zn\u00e1te-li prot\u011bj\u0161ek z minulosti, jist\u011b v\u00edte n\u011bco o jeho z\u00e1jmech. Vezm\u011bte ho na ve\u010de\u0159i, vyhl\u00eddku nad m\u011bstem, koncert nebo na jin\u00e9 jeho obl\u00edben\u00e9 m\u00edsto. <\/p> \n

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Dejte si z\u00e1le\u017eet s obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00edm <\/p> \n

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Ne nadarmo se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee \u0161aty d\u011blaj\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka. Na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzku se nehod\u00ed sportovn\u00ed ani vyz\u00fdvav\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed. Co takhle vsadit na lehkou eleganci? Mu\u017e\u016fm nesm\u00edrn\u011b slu\u0161\u00ed ko\u0161ile s riflemi a polobotky, \u017een\u00e1m oble\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e9 podtrhne jejich \u017eenskost a n\u011b\u017enost. Jako rozkvetl\u00e9 r\u016f\u017ee budou \u017eeny v sukni \u010di \u0161atech a bot\u00e1ch na podpatc\u00edch. Samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed jsou umyt\u00e9 vlasy, upraven\u00e9 nehty a u \u017een decentn\u00ed l\u00ed\u010den\u00ed. <\/p> \n

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Neodhalujte svou nervozitu <\/p> \n

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Stres a tr\u00e9ma mohou prvn\u00ed rande pokazit. Nenechte se ovl\u00e1dat t\u011bmito pocity \u2013 koneckonc\u016f v\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd ve\u010der v mil\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti a m\u011bli byste si ho n\u00e1le\u017eit\u011b u\u017e\u00edt! V\u011b\u0159te si a chovejte se sebev\u011bdom\u011b. Hl\u00eddejte si nonverb\u00e1ln\u00ed komunikaci, kter\u00e1 bohu\u017eel prozrad\u00ed va\u0161e prav\u00e9 pocity. Nem\u011bjte trhav\u00e9 pohyby a udr\u017eujte o\u010dn\u00ed kontakt. Jednejte bez v\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed a uka\u017ete na postoji t\u011bla, \u017ee je v\u00e1m s prot\u011bj\u0161kem dob\u0159e a c\u00edt\u00edte se uvoln\u011bn\u011b. \u0158e\u010d\u00ed t\u011bla m\u016f\u017eete druh\u00e9mu nazna\u010dit, \u017ee se v\u00e1m l\u00edb\u00ed a \u017ee\u00a0k n\u011bmu\u00a0chov\u00e1te n\u00e1klonnost. <\/p> \n

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Suver\u00e9nn\u011b komunikujte <\/p> \n

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Ob\u00e1v\u00e1te se, \u017ee se p\u0159i komunikaci ztrapn\u00edte nebo nezvl\u00e1dnete n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed t\u00e9mata? Zde plat\u00ed zlat\u00e9 pravidlo: bu\u010fte sv\u00ed a na nic si nehrajte. Neznamen\u00e1 to v\u0161ak, \u017ee budete mluvit sprost\u011b, ale ani nemluvte jako kniha \u010desk\u00e9ho pravopisu.\u00a0Stydliv\u00ed lid\u00e9 mohou vybrat ke sch\u016fzce takov\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kde nebude tolik prostoru pro komunikaci, nap\u0159\u00edklad kino nebo divadlo.\u00a0P\u0159i rozhovoru\u00a0na sebe\u00a0neprozra\u010fte\u00a0\u00fapln\u011b v\u0161echno, ale bu\u010fte trochu z\u00e1hadn\u00ed. Poslouchejte toho druh\u00e9ho a rozv\u00edjejte komunikaci ot\u00e1zkami. Bavte se o t\u00e9matech, kter\u00e1 jsou v\u00e1m ob\u011bma\u00a0bl\u00edzk\u00e1, a nesv\u011b\u0159ujte se\u00a0se\u00a0sv\u00fdmi probl\u00e9my. <\/p> \n

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V\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 dilema: kdo\u00a0bude\u00a0platit\u00a0na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce? <\/p> \n

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N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei\u00a0tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee by se na \u00fatrat\u011b m\u011bli pod\u00edlet oba dva. P\u00e1nov\u00e9, i samotn\u00fd\u00a0odborn\u00edk na etiketu Ladislav \u0160pa\u010dek zast\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1zor, \u017ee\u00a0by\u00a0na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce\u00a0m\u011bl\u00a0platit mu\u017e. Ukazuje\u00a0t\u00edm na sv\u00e9 d\u017eentlmenstv\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee mu\u017ei maj\u00ed co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s emancipovanou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 trv\u00e1 na \u00fahrad\u011b sv\u00e9ho \u00fa\u010dtu, nezb\u00fdv\u00e1\u00a0jim ne\u017e to respektovat. Ale\u00a0pokud to \u017eena ned\u00e1 jasn\u011b najevo, iniciativu by m\u011bl p\u0159evz\u00edt mu\u017e. A to bez v\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed. <\/p> \n

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Prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzka a prvn\u00ed dojem rozhodnou, zda v\u00e1s bude\u00a0prot\u011bj\u0161ek\u00a0cht\u00edt\u00a0vid\u011bt i v budoucnosti. Nebojte se po rande napsat tomu druh\u00e9mu, \u017ee se v\u00e1m \u010das str\u00e1ven\u00fd v jeho spole\u010dnosti l\u00edbil. Uvid\u00edte, jak\u00e1 bude jeho reakce. A co \u0159\u00edci na z\u00e1v\u011br? Nem\u011bjte nikdy velk\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, vyhnete se p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9mu zklam\u00e1n\u00ed. Berte prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzku jako p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost poznat nov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd bu\u010f ve va\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b z\u016fstane, nebo se v n\u011bm pouze mihne. <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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