Mil\u00e9 d\u00e1my, domluvily jste si s mu\u017eem z online\u00a0seznamky prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzku, ale vlastn\u011b\u00a0nev\u00edte, co v\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1? Nespol\u00e9hejte se na to, \u017ee jste mu\u017ee dob\u0159e poznaly p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy nebo telefon\u00e1ty. Bu\u010fte v\u017edy na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce opatrn\u00e9, proto\u017ee nikdy si nem\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt jist\u00e9, \u017ee budete s nezn\u00e1m\u00fdm mu\u017eem v bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Na co byste si m\u011bly d\u00e1t pozor? <\/p> \n
\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Nev\u011b\u0159te v\u0161emu, co jste si p\u0159e\u010detly <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Mu\u017ei na seznamk\u00e1ch mohou v mnoha ohledech lh\u00e1t, aby se v\u00e1m zal\u00edbili a p\u0159im\u011bli v\u00e1s ke sch\u016fzce. Krom\u011b toho se mohou vyd\u00e1vat za \u00fapln\u011b n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho a p\u0159i osobn\u00edm setk\u00e1n\u00ed budete zd\u011b\u0161en\u00e9, co p\u0159i\u0161lo za \u010dlov\u011bka. Zachovejte si v sob\u011b jistou d\u00e1vku obez\u0159etnosti a\u00a0nenamlouvejte si, \u017ee jste na internetu potkaly\u00a0sv\u00e9ho\u00a0vysn\u011bn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Vyberte m\u00edsto ke sch\u016fzce <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Navrhn\u011bte mu\u017ei, na jak\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b se setk\u00e1te. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je takov\u00e9 m\u00edsto, z kter\u00e9ho m\u016f\u017eete v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pot\u0159eby \u201eprchnout\u201c. Nek\u00fdvejte na nab\u00eddku, \u017ee si ud\u011bl\u00e1te celodenn\u00ed v\u00fdlet nebo pojedete na v\u00edkendov\u00fd pobyt. Co kdybyste si nepadli do oka? Na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce se sejd\u011bte na ve\u0159ejn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b s dostatkem lid\u00ed, nap\u0159\u00edklad v kav\u00e1rn\u011b v centru m\u011bsta. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Sv\u011b\u0159te se, kam a s k\u00fdm jdete <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Sd\u011blte n\u011bkomu bl\u00edzk\u00e9mu, \u017ee se chyst\u00e1te na sch\u016fzku s nezn\u00e1m\u00fdm mu\u017eem. \u0158ekn\u011bte nap\u0159\u00edklad sv\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dce v\u0161echny d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 informace o mu\u017ei v\u010detn\u011b jeho telefonn\u00edho \u010d\u00edsla nebo nicku na seznamce. Po\u017e\u00e1dejte ji, aby v\u00e1m b\u011bhem sch\u016fzky zavolala, aby se ujistila, \u017ee jste v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Stejn\u011b tak se dohodn\u011bte, \u017ee se j\u00ed ozvete, a\u017e budete doma. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Neprozrazujte na sebe soukrom\u00e9 informace <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n A\u017e dojde k osobn\u00edmu setk\u00e1n\u00ed a zah\u00e1j\u00edte komunikaci, dob\u0159e si rozmyslete, co o sob\u011b mu\u017ei prozrad\u00edte. I kdy\u017e vypad\u00e1 solidn\u011b, chra\u0148te sv\u00e9 soukrom\u00ed. Neprozrazujte mu, kde bydl\u00edte ani kde pracujete. Nesv\u011b\u0159ujte se mu se svou finan\u010dn\u00ed situac\u00ed a nevykl\u00e1dejte mu nic o sv\u00e9 rodin\u011b. Dr\u017ete se neutr\u00e1ln\u00edch t\u00e9mat a proberte maxim\u00e1ln\u011b sv\u00e9 kon\u00ed\u010dky a z\u00e1jmy. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Nesedejte s n\u00edm do auta <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00e1te st\u00e1le v \u017eiv\u00e9 pam\u011bti varov\u00e1n\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, \u017ee si nem\u00e1te sedat do auta s ciz\u00edmi lidmi. Pokud v\u00e1m mu\u017e navrhne, \u017ee v\u00e1s odveze dom\u016f, zavolejte si rad\u011bji taxi nebo bu\u010fte domluvena\u00a0na odvozu\u00a0s n\u011bk\u00fdm z rodiny. Nep\u0159istupujte ani na to, \u017ee v\u00e1s mu\u017e doprovod\u00ed p\u011b\u0161ky dom\u016f. Ur\u010dit\u011b nechcete, aby v\u011bd\u011bl, kde bydl\u00edte. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Nenechte se do ni\u010deho nutit <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Sna\u017e\u00ed se v\u00e1m mu\u017e vlichotit a nen\u00e1padn\u011b se sna\u017e\u00ed o fyzick\u00fd kontakt? Pokud jsou v\u00e1m jeho doteky nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 nebo dojde k n\u011bjak\u00fdm sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm nar\u00e1\u017ek\u00e1m \u010di n\u00e1vrh\u016fm, dejte mu srozumiteln\u011b najevo, \u017ee p\u0159ekro\u010dil hranici. V takov\u00fd okam\u017eik ud\u011bl\u00e1te nejl\u00e9pe, kdy\u017e sch\u016fzku ukon\u010d\u00edte a \u0159eknete\u00a0mu, \u017ee u\u017e se s n\u00edm\u00a0nechcete podruh\u00e9 vid\u011bt. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n P\u0159edv\u00eddejte mo\u017en\u00e1 rizika <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Bu\u010fte co nejv\u00edce obez\u0159etn\u00e9. P\u0159ihodit se m\u016f\u017ee cokoliv a n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se ne\u0161t\u00edt\u00ed v\u00e1s n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem om\u00e1mit. Ne\u017e odejdete od stolu na toaletu, pro jistotu dopijte svou skleni\u010dku, aby v\u00e1m do n\u00ed nemohl p\u0159im\u00edchat n\u011bjakou drogu. P\u0159ipad\u00e1 v\u00e1m tato mo\u017enost p\u0159ita\u017een\u00e1 za vlasy? Pak v\u011bzte, \u017ee tyto p\u0159\u00edpady nejsou a\u017e tak v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Necho\u010fte na prvn\u00ed rande na diskot\u00e9ku nebo do baru <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Diskot\u00e9ky a bary jsou v\u011bt\u0161inou hlu\u010dn\u00e9 a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 si tu nepopov\u00edd\u00e1te. Nav\u00edc bude kolem v\u00e1s spousta p\u0159iopil\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se po v\u00e1s budou bezosty\u0161n\u011b d\u00edvat. V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b to samy m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159ehnat s alkoholem a svol\u00edte k n\u011b\u010demu, \u010deho budete pozd\u011bji litovat. Nedovolte, aby se v\u00e1m sch\u016fzka jak\u00fdmkoliv zp\u016fsobem vymkla kontrole. <\/p> \n \u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n Opatrnosti nen\u00ed nikdy dost. I kdy\u017e jste ji\u017e absolvovaly mnoho sch\u016fzek naslepo a nikdy se nic nep\u0159ihodilo, nenechte se t\u00edm uchl\u00e1cholit. Nikdy nev\u00edte, na jak\u00e9ho mu\u017ee naraz\u00edte. <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mil\u00e9 d\u00e1my, domluvily jste si s mu\u017eem z online\u00a0seznamky prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzku, ale vlastn\u011b\u00a0nev\u00edte, co v\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1? Nespol\u00e9hejte se na to, \u017ee jste mu\u017ee dob\u0159e poznaly p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy nebo telefon\u00e1ty. Bu\u010fte v\u017edy na prvn\u00ed sch\u016fzce opatrn\u00e9, proto\u017ee nikdy si nem\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt jist\u00e9, \u017ee budete s nezn\u00e1m\u00fdm mu\u017eem v bezpe\u010d\u00ed. 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