{"id":6247,"date":"2019-07-15T12:18:56","date_gmt":"2019-07-15T12:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=6247"},"modified":"2019-07-15T12:18:56","modified_gmt":"2019-07-15T12:18:56","slug":"jak-zkrotit-zarliveho-partnera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/jak-zkrotit-zarliveho-partnera\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak zkrotit \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9ho partnera?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-doc-id=\"665035000011907833\" data-doc-type=\"function(){return&quot;writer&quot;}\">Ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra \u017e\u00e1rlivosti do vztahu pat\u0159\u00ed, ale nesm\u00ed to p\u0159ekro\u010dit \u00fanosnou hranici. Pokud je v\u00e1\u0161 partner \u017e\u00e1rliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo, zkuste na n\u011bj jednoduch\u00e9 triky a pokuste se ho zkrotit.\u00a0\u017divot s \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdm partnerem nen\u00ed v\u016fbec jednoduch\u00fd a leckdy mu vad\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b v\u0161echno: va\u0161i kolegov\u00e9, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 i rodinn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edci. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-textformat=\"{&quot;fw&quot;:&quot;bold&quot;}\">Jak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fd partner? <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\">\u017d\u00e1rliv\u00e9mu prot\u011bj\u0161ku sta\u010d\u00ed mal\u00fd impuls k tomu, aby na v\u00e1s za\u010dal \u017e\u00e1rlit, kontrolovat v\u00e1s a vysl\u00fdchat v\u00e1s jako na policejn\u00ed stanici. A\u0165 u\u017e \u0159eknete cokoliv, \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fd partner nebude s va\u0161\u00ed odpov\u011bd\u00ed nikdy spokojen\u00fd. Naopak se v jeho hlav\u011b vyroj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed domn\u011bnky a sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e a ve va\u0161ich sil\u00e1ch nen\u00ed, abyste ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dili o opaku. V\u011b\u0159\u00ed jen sv\u00e9 pravd\u011b a sv\u00fdm p\u0159edstav\u00e1m a v jeho o\u010d\u00edch se st\u00e1v\u00e1te lh\u00e1\u0159em. I nevinn\u00e9 zdr\u017een\u00ed v obchod\u011b nebo na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 v partnerovi podez\u0159en\u00ed, \u017ee jste mu byli nev\u011brn\u00ed. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-textformat=\"{&quot;fw&quot;:&quot;bold&quot;}\">\u017d\u00e1rlivec si mus\u00ed uv\u011bdomit sv\u016fj probl\u00e9m <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\">Se \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdm partnerem je skute\u010dn\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vyj\u00edt a vede to k destrukci vztahu. Prvn\u00edm krokem k \u00fasp\u011bchu je to, \u017ee si v\u00e1\u0161 prot\u011bj\u0161ek uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m. Teprve pot\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eete spole\u010dn\u00fdmi silami jeho \u017e\u00e1rlivost \u0159e\u0161it a zlep\u0161it st\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed situaci. V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee svou \u017e\u00e1rlivost pop\u00edr\u00e1, nikdy ji nebude m\u00edt pod kontrolou a ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u00e1m ze \u017eivota peklo. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed pak na v\u00e1s, zda s takov\u00fdm partnerem z\u016fstanete a budete sn\u00e1\u0161et jeho \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9 v\u00fdlevy. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-textformat=\"{&quot;fw&quot;:&quot;bold&quot;}\">Jak na \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9ho partnera? <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\">M\u016f\u017eete ale vyzkou\u0161et jednoduchou\u00a0taktiku. Jestli\u017ee\u00a0se nechcete s takov\u00fdm prot\u011bj\u0161kem rozej\u00edt, proto\u017ee ho milujete, nechte ho vypov\u00eddat se a naslouchejte mu. Nesk\u00e1kejte mu do \u0159e\u010di a nevykl\u00edzejte pole jenom proto, abyste od n\u011bj m\u011bli klid. Na jeho \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9 dotazy nereagujte a nesna\u017ete se obhajovat. A\u0165 u\u017e mu na jeho slova pov\u00edte cokoliv, zahrne v\u00e1s dal\u0161\u00edmi \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdmi ot\u00e1zkami. Tomu pot\u0159ebujete p\u0159edej\u00edt. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-textformat=\"{&quot;fw&quot;:&quot;bold&quot;}\">P\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dte ho o sv\u00fdch citech <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\">Na jeho smr\u0161\u0165 ot\u00e1zek odpov\u00eddejte v klidu a ujist\u011bte ho o sv\u00fdch citech. Koneckonc\u016f \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fd partner pot\u0159ebuje sly\u0161et uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee jste tu pro n\u011bj a \u017ee v\u00e1m na n\u011bm z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 tato taktika nezabere a bude ve sv\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdch ot\u00e1zk\u00e1ch pokra\u010dovat.\u00a0Odve\u010fte t\u00e9ma jin\u00fdm sm\u011brem a zeptejte\u00a0se ho na d\u011bti, co d\u00e1vaj\u00ed v televizi nebo jak\u00fd m\u011bl den. V krajn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b\u00a0mu vysv\u011btlete, \u017ee jeho \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9 sc\u00e9ny ni\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 vztah a doporu\u010dte mu, aby vyhledal odbornou pomoc. Pokud mu na v\u00e1s z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, u\u010din\u00ed tak. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\" data-textformat=\"{&quot;fw&quot;:&quot;bold&quot;}\">Kdy\u017e nechce odbornou pomoc, zkuste to vlastn\u00edmi silami <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\">M\u016f\u017eete se mu pokusit pomoct i sami. Nastavte \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e9mu partnerovi jeho vlastn\u00ed zrcadlo a p\u0159edve\u010fte mu, jak se b\u011bhem \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdch sc\u00e9n chov\u00e1. N\u00e1sledn\u011b se mu sv\u011b\u0159te s t\u00edm, jak se c\u00edt\u00edte po propuknut\u00ed jeho \u017e\u00e1rlivosti a v\u00fd\u010ditek a z\u00e1rove\u0148\u00a0od n\u011bj cht\u011bjte v\u011bd\u011bt, jak se s\u00e1m c\u00edtil pod va\u0161\u00edm \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdm atakem. \u017d\u00e1rlivost pramen\u00ed z nedostate\u010dn\u00e9ho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a ze strachu z rozchodu. Chvalte sv\u00e9ho partnera, projevujte mu svou n\u00e1klonnost a ujist\u011bte ho, \u017ee je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eitou osobou. <\/p> \n<p class=\"zw-paragraph\"><span class=\"EOP\">\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n <p> \u017d\u00e1rliv\u00fd\u00a0partner m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee ho nem\u00e1te dostate\u010dn\u011b r\u00e1di. Zapracujte na jeho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a chovejte se tak, abyste neztratili jeho d\u016fv\u011bru. Komunikujte spolu a probl\u00e9m nep\u0159ech\u00e1zejte.\u00a0Jde o budoucnost va\u0161eho vztahu a jist\u011b nechcete, aby jinak p\u011bkn\u00fd vztah zkrachoval\u00a0na chorobn\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1rlivosti. <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <p> Ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra \u017e\u00e1rlivosti do vztahu pat\u0159\u00ed, ale nesm\u00ed to p\u0159ekro\u010dit \u00fanosnou hranici. Pokud je v\u00e1\u0161 partner \u017e\u00e1rliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo, zkuste na n\u011bj jednoduch\u00e9 triky a pokuste se ho zkrotit.\u00a0\u017divot s \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fdm partnerem nen\u00ed v\u016fbec jednoduch\u00fd a leckdy mu vad\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b v\u0161echno: va\u0161i kolegov\u00e9, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 i rodinn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edci. \u00a0 Jak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00fd partner? \u00a0 \u017d\u00e1rliv\u00e9mu &hellip; <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":6249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[78],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6247"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6248,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247\/revisions\/6248"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6247"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=6247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}