{"id":6375,"date":"2020-04-12T07:02:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:02:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=6375"},"modified":"2020-04-12T07:02:38","modified_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:02:38","slug":"proc-je-naslouchani-ve-vztazich-tim-nejdulezitejsim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/proc-je-naslouchani-ve-vztazich-tim-nejdulezitejsim\/","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d je naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch t\u00edm nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm?"},"content":{"rendered":" <p> Budov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u0161ech vztah\u016f z\u00e1vis\u00ed na jedn\u00e9 hlavn\u00ed v\u011bci. Naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed. Naslouch\u00e1te v\u011bdom\u011b sv\u00e9mu prot\u011bj\u0161ku? V\u00edte, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1? Pokl\u00e1d\u00e1te dodate\u010dn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky a d\u00e1v\u00e1te najevo, \u017ee v\u00e1s t\u00e9ma zaj\u00edm\u00e1? Pod\u00edv\u00e1me se, pro\u010d je naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed nepostradatelnou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vztahu. <\/p> \n<h2>D\u016fv\u011bra<\/h2>\n <p> <strong>Naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed pom\u00e1h\u00e1 budovat d\u016fv\u011bru.<\/strong> Ka\u017ed\u00fd hled\u00e1me sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bnou du\u0161i, kter\u00e9 se m\u016f\u017eeme sv\u011b\u0159it, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s vyslechne a kter\u00e1 porad\u00ed. Jen m\u00e1lo z n\u00e1s chov\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bru k lidem, kter\u00fdm se nem\u016f\u017eeme sv\u011b\u0159it. Z toho d\u016fvodu je jedn\u00edm z nejlep\u0161\u00edch zp\u016fsob\u016f k nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed nebo patnerstv\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b v\u011bdom\u00e9 naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9mu prot\u011bj\u0161ku. <\/p> \n<h2>Respekt<\/h2>\n <p> <strong>Naslouch\u00e1n\u00edm si z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1me respekt druh\u00e9 osoby.<\/strong> Jak u\u017e jsem zm\u00ednila v\u00fd\u0161e, ka\u017ed\u00fd tou\u017e\u00ed po \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00fd mu porozum\u00ed. Jen\u017ee ne ka\u017ed\u00fd si na n\u00e1s ten \u010das ud\u011bl\u00e1 a doopravdy vn\u00edm\u00e1, co mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me. Proto, pat\u0159\u00edme-li mezi tu men\u0161inu, kter\u00e1 nev\u00e1h\u00e1 pro sv\u016fj prot\u011bj\u0161ek odlo\u017eit n\u011bjakou \u010dinnost a vyslechnout ho, z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1me obdiv, respekt a \u00factu. <\/p> \n<h2>\u0158e\u0161en\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed<\/h2>\n <p> <strong>Naslouch\u00e1n\u00edm m\u016f\u017eeme vy\u0159e\u0161it \u0159adu r\u016fzn\u00fdvch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a probl\u00e9m\u016f.<\/strong> N\u011bkdy sta\u010d\u00ed chvilka a v hlav\u011b si vytvo\u0159\u00edme domn\u011bnku, kter\u00e1 nen\u00ed zalo\u017eena na faktech a z\u00e1v\u011br je jasn\u00fd. D\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji dojde k nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed, proto\u017ee to druh\u00e1 strana myslela \u00fapln\u011b jinak. Stejn\u011b to plat\u00ed i obr\u00e1cen\u011b. Aktivn\u00edm naslouch\u00e1n\u00edm tak zjist\u00edme, co si polovi\u010dka doopravdy mysl\u00ed, kam m\u00ed\u0159\u00ed a jak\u00fd je jej\u00ed c\u00edl. Nemus\u00edme se pouze domn\u00edvat. <\/p> \n<h2>Budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu<\/h2>\n <p> <strong>Naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed vede k budov\u00e1n\u00ed kvalitn\u00edch vztah\u016f.<\/strong> St\u00e1v\u00e1me se d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u0161t\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, ochotn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi a respektovan\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi. Lid\u00e9 v na\u0161em okol\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed ocenit kvality. Sta\u010d\u00ed se tomu jen otev\u0159\u00edt. Dop\u0159ejme sob\u011b i sv\u00e9 polovi\u010dce \u010das beze sp\u011bchu, technologi\u00ed a jen poslouchejme. Nesna\u017eme se neust\u00e1le lidem vnucovat sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor. Zvolme si klid. Jen bu\u010fme, vn\u00edmejme a naslouchejme. V\u011b\u0159te mi, \u017ee podobn\u00fd luxus se v\u00e1m z\u00e1hy dostane tak\u00e9 a i vy budete vysly\u0161eni. <\/p> \n <p> &nbsp; <\/p> \n <p> <em>Naslouch\u00e1te sv\u00fdm bl\u00edzk\u00fdm? Dok\u00e1\u017eete je vn\u00edmat a doopravdy se zaj\u00edm\u00e1te o jejich tr\u00e1pen\u00ed \u010di radosti?<\/em> <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <p> Budov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u0161ech vztah\u016f z\u00e1vis\u00ed na jedn\u00e9 hlavn\u00ed v\u011bci. Naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed. Naslouch\u00e1te v\u011bdom\u011b sv\u00e9mu prot\u011bj\u0161ku? V\u00edte, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1? Pokl\u00e1d\u00e1te dodate\u010dn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky a d\u00e1v\u00e1te najevo, \u017ee v\u00e1s t\u00e9ma zaj\u00edm\u00e1? Pod\u00edv\u00e1me se, pro\u010d je naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed nepostradatelnou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vztahu. D\u016fv\u011bra Naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed pom\u00e1h\u00e1 budovat d\u016fv\u011bru. Ka\u017ed\u00fd hled\u00e1me sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bnou du\u0161i, kter\u00e9 se m\u016f\u017eeme sv\u011b\u0159it, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s vyslechne a kter\u00e1 porad\u00ed. Jen &hellip; <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":6376,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87],"tags":[113],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6375"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6375"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6375\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6377,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6375\/revisions\/6377"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6376"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6375"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=6375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}