{"id":6428,"date":"2020-09-16T16:31:05","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T16:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=6428"},"modified":"2020-09-16T16:31:05","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T16:31:05","slug":"seznamovaci-strategie-muzu-a-zen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/seznamovaci-strategie-muzu-a-zen\/","title":{"rendered":"Seznamovac\u00ed strategie mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een"},"content":{"rendered":" <p> Dal\u0161\u00ed d\u00edl na\u0161eho <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/clanky\/serial\/vztahovy-pruvodce\/\">Vztahov\u00e9ho pr\u016fvodce<\/a> se bude v\u011bnovat rozd\u00edl\u016fm v seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een. Obecn\u011b se d\u00e1 zhodnotit, \u017ee na\u0161e rozhodnut\u00ed jsou odrazem na\u0161ich charakteristik, nicm\u00e9n\u011b volba \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera nen\u00ed tak snadno definovateln\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed. Romantick\u00e9 zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159erodit v partnerskou l\u00e1sku, ale to, co spust\u00ed pocit zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed zcela jasn\u00e9. V\u00fdznamn\u00fdm faktorem pro vybudov\u00e1n\u00ed partnersk\u00e9ho pouta je pocit op\u011btov\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1klonnosti prot\u011bj\u0161kem. Lid\u00e9 se nej\u010dast\u011bji seznamuj\u00ed p\u0159es sv\u00e9 zn\u00e1m\u00e9, kamar\u00e1dy, ve \u0161kole nebo v pr\u00e1ci. Co\u017e d\u00e1v\u00e1 smysl u\u017e jen z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee jsou to lid\u00e9 a m\u00edsta, kde tr\u00e1v\u00edme velkou \u010d\u00e1st na\u0161eho \u017eivota, z\u00e1rove\u0148 si zde vyb\u00edr\u00e1me partnera na z\u00e1klad\u011b ur\u010dit\u00e9 podobnosti, kterou vn\u00edm\u00e1me vhledem ke spole\u010dn\u00fdm zn\u00e1m\u00fdm \u010di stejn\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci. To bylo koneckonc\u016f t\u00e9matem na\u0161eho p\u0159edchoz\u00edho \u010dl\u00e1nku o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/jak-si-vybirame-partnera\/\">jak si vyb\u00edr\u00e1me partnera<\/a>. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b z jak\u00fdchkoliv d\u016fvod\u016f se mo\u017enosti potkat nov\u00e9 potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed partnery mohou sni\u017eovat a my mus\u00edme hledat nov\u00e9 mo\u017enosti seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo se za\u010dneme v\u00edce zam\u011b\u0159ovat na to, jak vyu\u017e\u00edt ka\u017edou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost, co nejv\u00edce. <\/p> \n <p> Pokud se zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na rozd\u00edly mezi mu\u017ei a \u017eenami, studie americk\u00e9ho psychologa Davida Busse, kter\u00e1 se zam\u011b\u0159ila na taktiky pou\u017e\u00edvan\u00e9 pro z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1klonnosti opa\u010dn\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee mu\u017ei \u010dast\u011bji, ne\u017e \u017eeny pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed strategii ukazov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch zdroj\u016f. Maj\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed tendenci se vychloubat a ukazovat sv\u00e1 pozitiva. \u017deny se pak v\u00edce p\u0159ed mu\u017ei l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed, sna\u017e\u00ed se zlep\u0161it sv\u016fj vzhled, okouzlit sv\u00fdm zevn\u011bj\u0161kem. V r\u00e1mci tohoto v\u00fdzkumu bylo z\u00e1rove\u0148 identifikov\u00e1no hned n\u011bkolik taktik podobn\u00fdch pro ob\u011b pohlav\u00ed. Mezi n\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed to, \u017ee se projev\u00ed jejich smysl pro humor, schopnost souc\u00edtit s probl\u00e9my prot\u011bj\u0161ku, um\u011bt se chovat ve spole\u010dnosti nebo uk\u00e1zat druh\u00e9mu, \u017ee o sebe db\u00e1me, nap\u0159. cvi\u010d\u00edme nebo jsme p\u011bkn\u011b upraven\u00ed. <\/p> \n <p> Ve chv\u00edli, kdy mu\u017e vid\u00ed \u017eenu aktivuj\u00ed se v mozku vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed centra, aby si \u017eenu vizu\u00e1ln\u011b zapamatoval. \u017den\u011b se ve chv\u00edli, kdy poprv\u00e9 vid\u00ed mu\u017ee aktivuj\u00ed centra spojen\u00e1 se emocemi, sna\u017e\u00ed se tedy zapamatovat si pocit, kter\u00fd v ten moment m\u011bla. Generalizovan\u00e1 teorie pak prav\u00ed, \u017ee mu\u017esk\u00fd mozek je orientov\u00e1n na v\u00fdsledek a \u017eensk\u00fd na proces. Mo\u017en\u00e1 i to vysv\u011btluje v\u00fd\u0161e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 taktiky pro z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1klonnosti prot\u011bj\u0161ku. \u017deny vylep\u0161uj\u00ed sv\u016fj vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed dojem a mu\u017ei cht\u011bj\u00ed l\u00e9pe zap\u016fsobit, to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee v druh\u00e9m cht\u011bj\u00ed vyvolat dobr\u00fd pocit a p\u0159irozen\u011b tak zap\u016fsobit na emoce. <\/p> \n <p> Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b v\u00e1s te\u010f m\u016f\u017ee napadat, \u017ee sami nevol\u00edte ani jednu ze zmi\u0148ovan\u00fdch taktik. Pokud byste se na sv\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed pod\u00edvali z nadhledu nebo o\u010dima jin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, mo\u017en\u00e1 byste zjistili, \u017ee jen vol\u00edte m\u00e9n\u011b n\u00e1padn\u00fd projev stejn\u00e9ho jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se nel\u00ed\u010d\u00edte, ale chce se l\u00edbit sv\u00fdm vlastn\u00edm zp\u016fsobem. D\u00e1 se \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee je jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed se sezn\u00e1mit s \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd je vesel\u00fd, pov\u00eddav\u00fd, v\u00edce otev\u0159en\u00fd. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 pokud toto nen\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159irozen\u00fd projev, nebojte se na sch\u016fzce \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee jste nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed. Pokud si nejste jist\u00ed, rozhl\u00ed\u017eejte se po lidech kolem sebe, v\u0161\u00edmejte si, jak spolu mu\u017ei a \u017eeny mluv\u00ed, sledujte jejich \u0159e\u010d t\u011bla a zkuste n\u011bco z toho zapracovat do sv\u00e9 komunikace. Pokud m\u00e1te z\u00e1jem o n\u011bkoho, kdo je na prvn\u00ed pohled nep\u0159\u00edstupn\u00fd, vyhodno\u0165te situaci, sledujte, jak reaguje obecn\u011b na lidi, jak si k sob\u011b sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed pust\u00ed a dle toho zvolte sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edstup. Za zkou\u0161ku nic ned\u00e1te a nejhor\u0161\u00ed, co se stane je, \u017ee v\u00e1s odm\u00edtne. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed na tom bude to, \u017ee p\u0159ekon\u00e1te sv\u00e9 obavy, vykro\u010d\u00edte ze sv\u00e9 komfortn\u00ed z\u00f3ny, a to v\u00e1m d\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji \u00fasp\u011bch p\u0159inese. <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <p> Dal\u0161\u00ed d\u00edl na\u0161eho Vztahov\u00e9ho pr\u016fvodce se bude v\u011bnovat rozd\u00edl\u016fm v seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een. Obecn\u011b se d\u00e1 zhodnotit, \u017ee na\u0161e rozhodnut\u00ed jsou odrazem na\u0161ich charakteristik, nicm\u00e9n\u011b volba \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera nen\u00ed tak snadno definovateln\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed. Romantick\u00e9 zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159erodit v partnerskou l\u00e1sku, ale to, co spust\u00ed pocit zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed nen\u00ed zcela jasn\u00e9. V\u00fdznamn\u00fdm faktorem pro vybudov\u00e1n\u00ed &hellip; <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":6429,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[117],"tags":[103,121,116],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6428"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6428"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6428\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6430,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6428\/revisions\/6430"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6428"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=6428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}