{"id":6437,"date":"2020-11-13T17:41:33","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T17:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=6437"},"modified":"2020-11-13T17:41:33","modified_gmt":"2020-11-13T17:41:33","slug":"zaujmete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/zaujmete\/","title":{"rendered":"Zaujm\u011bte!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0V\u00a0p\u0159edchoz\u00edch d\u00edlech na\u0161eho Seznamovac\u00edho pr\u016fvodce<\/a> jste si mohli p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm o za\u010d\u00e1tc\u00edch p\u0159i seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a hled\u00e1n\u00ed nov\u00e9ho partnera. U\u017e v\u00edme, jak rozd\u00edln\u011b stejn\u00e9 situace mohu vn\u00edmat \u017eeny a mu\u017ei a jak porozum\u011bn\u00ed t\u011bmto rozd\u00edl\u016fm m\u016f\u017ee pomoci ve vlastn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edstupu k\u00a0situac\u00edm. Poj\u010fme se tedy posunout na dal\u0161\u00ed \u00farove\u0148 p\u0159i z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed partnera \u2013 osloven\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s zaujal.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

Vzhledem k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee jsme aktu\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00a0online prost\u0159ed\u00ed, za\u010dn\u011bme tedy setk\u00e1n\u00edm dvou lid\u00ed na seznamce<\/a>. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy si \u010dlov\u011bk na seznamce tvo\u0159\u00ed sv\u016fj profil, chce se n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem prezentovat sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed, jde o ur\u010ditou formu sebevyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed. Nep\u0159\u00edtomnost fyzi\u010dna n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 prostor vyj\u00e1d\u0159it se pomoc\u00ed na\u0161ich p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvk\u016f, na\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ezd\u00edvky, fotek. To n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 ur\u010ditou flexibilitu v\u00a0tom vyj\u00e1d\u0159it to, jac\u00ed opravdu jsme, proto\u017ee to je v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 komunikaci v\u00a0tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v\u00a0tv\u00e1\u0159 mnohdy velmi obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 a ne hned si na to troufneme. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b se v\u00a0takov\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed m\u016f\u017eeme setkat se ztr\u00e1tou schopnosti udr\u017eovat mor\u00e1ln\u00ed principy, so kter\u00fdch by byl \u010dlov\u011bk jinak nucen sv\u00fdm okol\u00edm. To jak se zachovat pokud se setk\u00e1te s\u00a0takov\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, m\u016f\u017eeme probrat jindy, te\u010f se soust\u0159e\u010fme na dva lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed stejn\u00fd c\u00edl, naj\u00edt l\u00e1sku. M\u011bjte tedy na pam\u011bti, \u017ee stejn\u011b jak si vy tvo\u0159\u00edte obr\u00e1zek o profilu druh\u00e9ho, tvo\u0159\u00ed si ho on o v\u00e1s.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

Prvn\u00ed mo\u017enost\u00ed, jak oslovit n\u011bkoho na seznamce, je tedy n\u00e1\u0161 profil. Naprosto zjednodu\u0161en\u011b se d\u00e1 \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee z\u00e1kladem dlouhodob\u00e9ho \u00fasp\u011bchu jsou autentick\u00e9 informace o v\u00e1s. Spousta z\u00a0n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed, ale je to opravdu to, co d\u011bl\u00e1te r\u00e1di? Jsou v\u0161echny v\u00e1mi vypln\u011bn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy ty, kter\u00e9 opravdu d\u011bl\u00e1te a potenci\u00e1ln\u011b byste cht\u011bli d\u011blat se sv\u00fdm partnerem? Nebo chcete sp\u00ed\u0161e vypadat zaj\u00edmav\u011b a oslovit mo\u017en\u00e1 velk\u00e9ho sportovce? Ten bude d\u00edky tomu pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b m\u00edt vyr\u00fdsovanou postavu, ale polo\u017ete si ot\u00e1zku, zda byste jeho sportem cht\u011bli tr\u00e1vit sv\u016fj voln\u00fd \u010das nebo jestli jsem ochotni brzy r\u00e1no vst\u00e1vat, abyste mohli chodit b\u011bhat, proto\u017ee i pro n\u011bj to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt d\u016fvod, pro\u010d si vybral zrovna v\u00e1s. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b ve vztahu nejde jen o sport, ale takovou analogii m\u016f\u017eete pou\u017e\u00edt u v\u0161eho, co do sv\u00e9ho profilu p\u00ed\u0161ete.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

P\u0159i zva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak oslovit n\u011bkoho konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho, v\u00e1m pr\u00e1v\u011b informace z\u00a0jeho profilu mohou napov\u011bd\u011bt. Nejd\u0159\u00edve si pojmenujte sv\u016fj z\u00e1m\u011br. Chcete v\u00e1\u017en\u00fd vztah? Chcete flirtovat? Je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 si \u010dlov\u011bka \u201eo\u0165uknout\u201c ve zpr\u00e1v\u00e1ch nebo ho zrovna pozvat na sch\u016fzku? Z\u00e1rove\u0148 s\u00a0ohledem na v\u00e1mi pozorovan\u00e9 charakteristiky druh\u00e9ho zvolte styl va\u0161\u00ed komunikace. Nikdy nezapome\u0148te na pozdrav, ale nen\u00ed nutn\u00e9 volit obecn\u00e9 bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze, kter\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd. Za\u010dn\u011bte dotazem na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed fotku, na v\u00fdlet, na v\u00fdlet ze kter\u00e9ho je nebo t\u00edm, co v\u00e1s vlastn\u011b na druh\u00e9m zaujalo. I v\u00e1\u0161 prot\u011bj\u0161ek tak bude v\u011bd\u011bt, jak v\u00e1m odpov\u011bd\u011bt nebo muset \u0159e\u0161it dilema, jestli odpov\u00eddat up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b nebo se uch\u00fdlit ke stejn\u011b obecn\u00e9 odpov\u011bdi, kter\u00e1 bude v\u00e1\u0161 rozhovor d\u00e1l rozv\u00edjet jen t\u011b\u017eko.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

Pokud jste t\u00edm, kdo dostal prvn\u00ed zpr\u00e1vu, nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ot\u00e1let s\u00a0odpov\u011bd\u00ed a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let nad pravidly typu: \u201enechce ho chv\u00edli vydusit\u201c. Z\u00a0po\u010d\u00e1tku p\u0159eci chceme rozv\u00edjet rozhovor, nejde o esej, ale rozhovor, kter\u00fd by v\u00a0realit\u011b tak\u00e9 prob\u00edhal bez del\u0161\u00edch pomlk. Sta\u010d\u00ed si vym\u011bnit p\u00e1r prvotn\u00edch v\u011bt, abyste mohli vyhodnotit sv\u016fj prvn\u00ed dojem. Nav\u00edc se velk\u00e9 prodlevy v\u00a0rozhovoru hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku sezn\u00e1men\u00ed daj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e hodnotit jako nez\u00e1jem ne\u017e snad p\u016fsobit tajemn\u011b.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

Nep\u0159edstavujte hned v\u00a0prvn\u00edch v\u011bt\u00e1ch sv\u016fj \u017eivot, sp\u00ed\u0161e dejte druh\u00e9mu \u0161anci p\u00e1trat a pt\u00e1t se. I tak m\u016f\u017eete z\u00edskat informaci o tom, \u017ee o v\u00e1s m\u00e1 z\u00e1jem. Nechce si podrobn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed informace na osobn\u00ed setk\u00e1n\u00ed, rozv\u00edjejte tak vz\u00e1jemnou up\u0159\u00edmnost a d\u016fv\u011brnost. Sp\u00ed\u0161e toto m\u016f\u017ee v\u00a0druh\u00e9m vzbudit pocit zv\u011bdavosti ne\u017e to, \u017ee ho nech\u00e1te n\u011bkolik dn\u00ed \u010dekat na prvn\u00ed odpov\u011b\u010f.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

Na z\u00e1v\u011br zm\u00edn\u00edme i my z\u00e1kladn\u00ed samoz\u0159ejmost a tou je gramatika. Dejte si pozor na hrubky a automatick\u00e9 opravy. Ty mohou n\u011bkdy zp\u016fsobit vtipn\u00e9 momenty, z\u00e1rove\u0148 mohou vyzn\u00edt natolik \u0161patn\u011b, \u017ee v\u00e1m druh\u00fd na zpr\u00e1vu ani neodpov\u00ed.\u00a0<\/span> <\/p> \n

V\u0161echno se mo\u017en\u00e1 zd\u00e1 jako samoz\u0159ejmost\u00ed a hloupost\u00ed, ale zkuste to. Dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed z\u00e1sad a praxe nejsou v\u017edy tak jednoduch\u00e9, jak se mohou zd\u00e1t. <\/span> <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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