{"id":7176,"date":"2023-11-14T10:00:55","date_gmt":"2023-11-14T10:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/?p=7176"},"modified":"2024-02-20T12:52:30","modified_gmt":"2024-02-20T12:52:30","slug":"6-tipu-o-cem-mluvit-na-prvnim-rande","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/6-tipu-o-cem-mluvit-na-prvnim-rande\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tip\u016f, o \u010dem mluvit na prvn\u00edm rande"},"content":{"rendered":"

O \u010dem mluvit na prvn\u00edm rande<\/a>? Rozhovor na prvn\u00edm rande je jako ch\u016fze po tenk\u00e9m led\u011b. Pozn\u00e1v\u00e1te se s \u00fapln\u011b ciz\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem, o kter\u00e9m prakticky nic nev\u00edte. O to t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed je ud\u011blat na n\u011bj dojem a zjistit, jak se k sob\u011b hod\u00edte. M\u00e1me pro v\u00e1s n\u011bkolik tip\u016f, o \u010dem si pov\u00eddat a jak udr\u017eet plynulou konverzaci! <\/p> \n

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1. Za\u010dn\u011bte neform\u00e1ln\u011b<\/h2>\n

Za\u010d\u00e1tek je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. Mus\u00edte mezi sebou vytvo\u0159it z\u00e1klad vztahu<\/strong> a teprve potom se m\u016f\u017eete pustit do hlub\u0161\u00edch rozhovor\u016f. <\/p> \n

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\u201eI kdy\u017e m\u00e1te n\u011bco spole\u010dn\u00e9ho, nap\u0159\u00edklad vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, z\u00e1jmy nebo v\u00edru, je \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 budovat vztah i na jin\u00fdch t\u00e9matech,\u201c<\/em> uv\u00e1d\u00ed Jess Carbino, sociolo\u017eka a odbornice na vztahy pro web Oprahdaily.com<\/a>. <\/p> \n

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\u201ePokud si nejste jisti, jak za\u010d\u00edt konverzaci, okomentujte n\u011bco ve sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed<\/strong>. Pro za\u010d\u00e1tek se m\u016f\u017eete partnera zeptat, jestli byl n\u011bkdy v\u00a0kav\u00e1rn\u011b, parku nebo kdekoli, kde jste se setkali, nebo jestli v\u00a0t\u00e9to \u010dtvrti tr\u00e1v\u00ed hodn\u011b \u010dasu. Potom m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159ej\u00edt k\u00a0t\u00e9mat\u016fm kolem j\u00eddla, cestov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo k jin\u00e9mu t\u00e9matu, kter\u00e9 zachyt\u00edte b\u011bhem rozhovoru,\u201c<\/em> dod\u00e1v\u00e1 sociolo\u017eka. <\/p> \n

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2. Mluvte o sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b<\/h2>\n

Pov\u011bzte partnerovi, co je pro v\u00e1s v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nebojte se uk\u00e1zat tak\u00e9 svoje nedokonal\u00e9 \u201ej\u00e1\u201c \u2013 \u017eivot nen\u00ed jen o \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch. Bu\u010fte autenti\u010dt\u00ed<\/strong>, proto\u017ee lid\u00e9 jsou r\u00e1di v\u00a0bl\u00edzkosti t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou otev\u0159en\u00ed a um\u00ed se pod\u011blit o svoji zranitelnost. <\/p> \n

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FAKT:<\/em><\/strong> Kdy\u017e jste s\u00a0n\u011bk\u00fdm, komu je s\u00a0v\u00e1mi dob\u0159e, otev\u0159e se v\u00e1m, a\u0165 u\u017e si to uv\u011bdomuje nebo ne.<\/em> <\/p> \n

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3. Ptejte se na v\u011bci ze seznamky<\/h2>\n

Sezn\u00e1mili jste se na online seznamce nebo prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm aplikace? Seznamovac\u00ed profil<\/a> m\u016f\u017eete pou\u017e\u00edt jako v\u00fdchoz\u00ed bod k rozhovoru<\/strong>. P\u0159ed setk\u00e1n\u00edm si ho pe\u010dliv\u011b prohl\u00e9dn\u011bte a najd\u011bte t\u00e9mata, o kter\u00fdch byste mohli diskutovat. Uk\u00e1\u017eete t\u00edm, \u017ee jste p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli o tom, co tam doty\u010dn\u00fd napsal. <\/p> \n

\"\u017eena<\/h2>\n

4. Aktivn\u011b naslouchejte<\/h2>\n

Sna\u017ete se porozum\u011bt tomu, co doty\u010dn\u00fd \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 a co p\u0159i tom c\u00edt\u00ed. Z\u00edsk\u00e1te tak hlub\u0161\u00ed pohled <\/strong>do jeho \u017eivota. <\/p> \n

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TIP:<\/em><\/strong> Zeptejte se ho, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed ve svoj\u00ed pr\u00e1ci. Dostanete zaj\u00edmavou odpov\u011b\u010f, jak vn\u00edm\u00e1 svoje zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. Nebojte se hovor rozv\u00edjet:<\/strong> jak se k\u00a0t\u00e9to pr\u00e1ci dostal? Co by na n\u00ed zm\u011bnil?<\/em> <\/p> \n

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5. Zaj\u00edmejte se, co ho bav\u00ed<\/h2>\n

Neomezujte se jen na pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed o pr\u00e1ci. Zjist\u011bte jeho kon\u00ed\u010dky a z\u00e1jmy a co by cht\u011bl vyzkou\u0161et. T\u00edmto nahl\u00e9dnete do jeho nitra a dozv\u00edte se v\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch b\u011b\u017en\u011b nemluv\u00ed<\/strong>. <\/p> \n

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6. P\u0159ejd\u011bte k\u00a0hlub\u0161\u00edm t\u00e9mat\u016fm<\/h2>\n

A\u017e budete m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee jste mezi sebou vytvo\u0159ili z\u00e1klady d\u016fv\u011bry<\/strong>, m\u016f\u017eete se p\u0159esunout k\u00a0hlub\u0161\u00edm ot\u00e1zk\u00e1m: jak se mu da\u0159\u00ed v\u00a0posledn\u00ed dob\u011b? Jak si p\u0159edstavuje ide\u00e1ln\u00ed vztah? Jak se mu \u017eije v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnosti? Jak\u00e9 m\u00e1 vztahy s\u00a0rodinou? Jak\u00e9 m\u00e1 sny a c\u00edle do budoucna? <\/p> \n

\u00a0<\/em> <\/p> \n

Kde se sezn\u00e1mit, abyste mohli vyrazit na prvn\u00ed rande<\/a>? P\u0159ihlaste se na nejlep\u0161\u00ed seznamku Yellobar<\/a> a oslovte origin\u00e1ln\u00edmi ot\u00e1zkami sympatick\u00e9 lidi! <\/p> \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

O \u010dem mluvit na prvn\u00edm rande? Rozhovor na prvn\u00edm rande je jako ch\u016fze po tenk\u00e9m led\u011b. Pozn\u00e1v\u00e1te se s \u00fapln\u011b ciz\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem, o kter\u00e9m prakticky nic nev\u00edte. O to t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed je ud\u011blat na n\u011bj dojem a zjistit, jak se k sob\u011b hod\u00edte. M\u00e1me pro v\u00e1s n\u011bkolik tip\u016f, o \u010dem si pov\u00eddat a jak udr\u017eet plynulou … <\/p> \n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":7177,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[87,358,359],"tags":[353,352,105,98],"table_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7176"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7176"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7176\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7310,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7176\/revisions\/7310"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7177"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7176"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yellobar.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=7176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}